Why A Flesh Light Is Better Than Porn

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Ok ladies this one is for the men although you still may find it interesting. I guess we should start with the disclaimers.

1. I am not being paid to write this it comes from my own experience
2. Flesh light’s in no way will ever replace having sex with a woman, this should be obvious but just to make it clear
3. Yes this is a serious article

First let’s start with why porn is no good. On a simple biological level our brains where not designed to handle such huge amounts of stimulation that is so easily accessed with the abundance of free porn on the internet.

When we look into the whole industry a bit deeper we can see how there are so many accounts of woman being abused in this field. Like being told a scene will go a certain way but then when actually going to shoot it they are forced to do things that were not pre agreed or be threatened with no pay.

Also when looking at the many accounts of ex porn stars you can see that there is a common theme of lack of self worth, anxiety, poverty, desperation and so on. I have empathy and compassion for the women in this situation as this society can be very unforgiving with regards to how it can treat it’s own members.

Then another factor is how porn can become a serious addiction. I speak from my own experience from having overcome addictions to alcohol, tobacco, weed, caffeine, and ecstasy. Porn was actually harder to overcome for me than all of these other substances. I would say the only addiction in the same league is sugar but that is another story.

Also I believe persistent addictive use can actually lower the sexual energy of a man. When masturbating over porn, for me it was just a race to the finish line and I believe masturbation is training your body in how to have sex. So you can see how this would translate into one’s sex life.

Sex is best when done with love, not that it’s a necessity but for me just playing out pure physical instinctual drives as opposed to connecting with someone as the creator god spark they are, doesn’t even compare. The most popular porn is so detached from any source of love. I think part of the issue also is when young people watch this without a decent education about sex from their parents, they can then be lead to believe this is normal behaviour. In some tribe’s sex happened with the kids in the room totally aware of what was happening. Think of like how animals do it and how they pass on their, techniques? Now I am not suggesting for people to start fucking with their kids in the room just pointing out how other parts of the world have gotten around this situation.

Also the last time I visited porn the front page of the currently most popular videos was saturated with incest, it seems like a slippery slope. Also, that’s not even going into some of the darker corners of pornography that are absolutely disgusting but again having been to some degree normalised. I think when we get to this stage of porn we are dealing with demonic forces playing out through humans. Imagine if you are a demon and you would like to set up a source of consistent energy for yourself? Could this be done via the connection through the internet? I believe this could be possible, although how exactly I am not sure and would almost certainly tie into the Hyperdimensional Matrix Control System. During one of my Amanita Muscaria trips I was very strongly shown how when one masturbates over porn, their energy goes to feed the matrix control system.

With all of this I still can understand why porn exists as there is so much suppression of sexuality in our society. It’s weird because on one hand it is shoved right in our faces but then open expression and discussion of sexuality is often very difficult. Throw into the mix peoples lack of self worth and self love and it becomes even more difficult.

This is part of the reason of why I decided to write this article as I believe this is a key issue and an area where a lot of healing can take place. Simply discussing these topics can help people to overcome issues they may be facing.

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Now let me explain why I think a flesh light is superior to porn in every way.

For starts, it feels so much better than your hand! Now that should have your attention. Just a little bit of water based lube and you are good to go. I don’t bother heating mine up as it loses it’s heat pretty quick anyway and having to wait 10 minutes can take the edge of those spontaneous waves of sexual excitement. After some experimentation I have got a good rhythm and flow, it really is a whole new level of masturbating.

Secondly, I myself am a traveller so I am consistently moving from place to place. With this I also tend to want to connect with a woman on a deep level in a variety of ways as opposed to my teenage days when I didn’t care so much. To develop these connections takes time, another factor being I have spent so much time in the middle of nowhere where there are barely any people also. All of these factors lead to long periods without sex and all men can back me up on this one is that if you don’t use it then you lose it.

This is where the flesh light comes in. It is close enough to the real thing that it can come close to matching the stimulation during intercourse and essentially allows you to practice and build up sexual stamina. This is a key point because what I am personally doing is maintaining and actually increasing my sexual endurance for when I meet a woman who I would like to have sex with.

This is important because as I mentioned before I don’t believe a flesh light will ever replace having sex with a woman it is just doesn’t even come close. There are multiple physical, mental, emotional and spiritual reasons as to why I think this but I will leave that up to your imagination.

I think using sex toys could perhaps be taken too far when someone goes and buys, say, an entire life like sex doll. That for me is a little too far as now that sex doll may actually be used in replacement for seeking a human partner. I don’t know though and maybe not but that’s just what it feels like to me.

I am reminded of how sex dolls are popular in certain areas Japan but the issue is that young people are just not experimenting with each other and having sex so then resorting to fucking dolls instead! I just want to drive home the point that a flesh light can be used in preparation for the real thing, not as a replacement.

Another reason why a flesh light is better than porn is that there is absolutely no reason to feel guilty about using it! When I would use porn my reactions afterwards would vary but guilt was quite common. We really have no idea how the woman was treated or how much she was paid or her back story of why she chose to be in such a role. The whole thing is quite complicated on a moral and emotional level. Some people don’t care about this I guess but for me it was a big thing gnawing at my spiritual integrity.

With a flesh light there is none of these troubles! I find after a session with the flesh light I am guilt free and way more satisfied then with a quick porn indulgence. I actually also feel more confident around woman as well as an added side bonus. I used to have trouble with premature ejaculation which I believe was caused by hugely abusing porn for many years throughout my teenage years.

For any man who has been through this or is dealing with it currently, they know how bad it really can be. It’s embarrassing, and can really leave one feeling deflated after having sex. I find this to be very sad as sex is one of the most amazing things in this world and to feel like you can’t properly participate in the act really sucks! Especially when you really love the woman and every fibre of your being wants to be able to have sex for longer but you just can’t.

Now I am sure there are multiple ways to remedy this such as Kegel exercises or developing some tantra practice. I just share what worked for me and that was a bit of a combination of a few things whilst training myself using a flesh light.

Now I am assuming that you have read this far that you are open to people sharing their sexuality so for the next part I will share exactly my technique that I used to increase my sexual stamina. The original creator of this technique was a young man in some review section on the internet, so kudos to that guy.

Ok so I would begin my session and continue as normal. Then I would build up to as close to an orgasm as I could manage and then stop, breathe deeply and do a contract of the perineum. This is what Kegel exercises are by the way. Then when I have relaxed and the stimulation is not so intense I would begin again. I would repeat this until I felt like I was satisfied enough to then orgasm.

At first I was actually timing myself to see how long I could last but I don’t bother now. I can easily tell you my masturbations last a lot longer now than when I used to use porn. My sexual energy has increased and so has my confidence with woman, win win.

So the only thing with using a flesh light is you have to maintain it properly. This is simple to do. Just rinse the sleeve thoroughly with warm water (Don’t use soap!!) and then leave to dry. The drying can take ages, for me sometimes over a day so  I purchased a small usb powered fan to dry it out. The sleeve can now be dried out in less than 2 hours. I don’t bother with the renewal powder and so far no problems, many reviews I read say how it is not necessary.

Of course the only thing is that you will have to pay for the upfront cost of the item as well as water based lube. If you invest in a big bottle then it would last you ages. I personally think the investment is well worth it if you were to substitute for porn as what you spend financially you are given back in terms of your physical, mental and emotional well being.

Talking about these issues is a good way to bring about healing that so many people really need. This is why I share my experience so that people can be assisted with what I have gone through and won’t have to go through as much unnecessary suffering as I did.

Have fun.

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